The friend problem

Ive known about my pregnancy for 10 weeks now and the worst thing about it I've found is friends. They drop like flies. You don't get invited anywhere, you don't hear from them and you become really quite dull. One friend in particular who I was very close to me hasn't spoken to me since I told her! I've found that some of my friends who don't invite me out simply don't think I'll want to go out as I suffered from sickness for a few weeks and wasn't very social but the easiest way to solve that was by telling them that I am very available and very bored!! I feel okay about being dumped by some friends as its a really good way to judge who was actually your friend and who just wanted a drinking partner! Oh and being deleted by male friends on Facebook who were always just friends kind of makes me think that now I'm pregnant I'm not worth being friends with as access to my pants isn't very likely ha! The plus side is that my closest friends have been wonderful at giving me support when I need it and space when I'm tired and emotional! Also, I've reconnected with so many people who are genuinely excited for our babys arrival which is so sweet :) and I've become closer to a lot of friends who are parents themselves and I have learnt to bloody well respect them! So far I've not met up with anyone it's all been mainly Facebook based but I hope that I will have a whole new group of friends to enjoy as well as the ones that have been such stars!